I'm 45, never lied about my age. I have a young face but my gray hairs tend to give me away. I'm a desert storm army veteran. I've always been the bread winner, the head of the household, if you will, the man in the relationship, but I can be as gentle as they come. I'm what you would call a soft stud. I'm not trying to be a man, just love expressing my masculinity. Jeans, new sneakers and a couple accessories and I'm dressed for the day. I do want to step up my dressing swagger, but I'd have to have places to go with it, know what I mean? I've been a cougar a time or two. I've been a stay at home, Mr. Mom with the kids a few times. Kids love me and I love them as long as they are respectable. I've raised a few kids in my life and even though the relationship has ended, I maintain a relationship with my exes primarily because of the kids but besides that, I'm friends with all my exes except one. If you can be secure enough with me and get along with everybody, then you are definitely good money. And anything that's good is good money. See, there are baby daddies involved and I have to be cool with the contact the moms have to maintain, so I figure since I have no kids of my own, I'm gonna need someone who is cool with the fact that I maintain communication with the kids and moms as well. I'm not a cheater and I've never gone back, always looking forward. Anyway, there's a lot more in store, I just wanted to scratch the surface. So, if you want someone to spoil, holla at me and in return, I'll spoil you......easy! We can just be two spoiled individuals. Oh yea, and cooking is a task for me, I'll only cook if I absolutely have to. PEACE!

Scorpio